CBox Question #1!!!

Many of you may not know, but the Cbox to the right can be utilized to ask questions so that you can get an honest answer from a gentleman/lady. You can be completely anonymous, or you can place your name-- it's all up to you. If that's too complicated, or personal for you, send your questions to lmccall4@students.kennesaw.edu and your questions will be answered to the best of our ability! Let's get started with the first question:

"Why, when a guy breaks up with a girl, do they not speak to them and put on a "I don't care about you" act?"

Seeing that I don't know the guy- nor the situation, as a male I can only attempt to tell you exactly what's going on in his head. If there is a reason for him to not speak to you- like if you cheated or did him dirty, the reason he's acting this way is pretty self explanatory. You may not even know he knows something- everything in the dark comes to light at some time. So you may want to check your tracks before you start to question his. If he doesn't have a legit reason to not speak to you, he may just be trying to create one in his head.

"I want to see if she cares enough about me to call/ text me first."
"Okay, she calls/texts me first, but I want to see if she keeps doing it even if i give her short answers or don't respond at all. It will show that she really cares."

I know, I know, it may sound so stupid and unfair to you, but for some reason this makes complete sense in most men's heads! Unfortunately, men have an ultimate ego problem that covers our whole hearts-- unless we're in love. I can make this bold statement, and if anyone chooses to disagree, that's what the comment section is for- LOVE CANCELS OUT EGO because LOVE WIPES OUT ALL FEAR. True love, that is- not the love you feel when you're wearing "love goggles" which is a whole different subject for a different day. If the guy loved you, he wouldn't be acting like an ass once you guys have broken up, right? He'd probably be trying to get you back. Makes sense, right? Or...they may be trying to get at someone else. Some guys know that if they act mean towards you and ignore you, it'll attract you more because you like the chase. Hopefully that's not your case because this is how you get abused due to a stupid complex you carry. Usually the reasons for a man's actions are laid out in front of your face, but you may ignore it due to denial.

Stop doing that.

You know why he's doing what he's doing. Just accept it and move on to someone else. Hopefully, it'll be their loss and if you're a good girl- it WILL be. And he'll be coming back.
But when he does...you know what to do!

Once again, direct your questions to the cbox to the right of you, or just shoot them to the email listed above. We pledge to respond to each question quickly and accordingly!
Peace.

~ L. McCall